Tendency of Parents

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A father tends to

• Focus on teaching children good manners, ritualized action and other tools which might be needed by children for future survival.
• Bond in short bursts of attachment and connection with child, both emotional and physical, in comparison to the mother.
• Be more competitive. Dads expect more perfection, discipline and success for their children. They provide contests, tasks, tests of skills.
• Push his child to be independent from his or her caregivers. 
• Promote risk taking in the growing child, which is necessary to get success in the future life.
• Teach facing different situations and conditions emotionally and physically. He downplay emotions, even at the risk of hurt feelings.
• Make ready his child to fight against any vulnerability, emotional or physical.
• Realize the child about self-worth.
• Guide the child to sacrifice his or her own thinking in deference to authority thinking till he or she has not become so mature enough to become authoritative.
• Teach child to become strong emotionally as well as physically. He tries to help the child to feel strong even in those conditions when child does not feel better.

A Mother tends to

• Help the child to quickly resolve the inner emotional conflicts and stresses so that whole bonding system can feel better.
• Find it difficult to distance herself emotionally from the child when her child does anything wrong.
• Teach the child to show empathy when someone is hurt, even at the expense of games, other tasks, goals or any work.
• Motivate multitasking and complex development of sensory enjoyment in the growing child. That's why a mother make a child to attend different activity classes.
• Bonds with the child in long bursts of connection both physical and emotional by hugging, kissing , talking.
• Provide verbal encouragement to promote the child's skills, talents and overall development. 
• Try to be a friend or partner in every activity or at every stage of life where child needs a friend or a partner.
• Alter their schedules and activities according to the routine of the child in  order to care for child's various needs. They compromise their personal needs and give preference to the necessities of the child.
• Create such bonding and attachment between herself and the child which helps the child to express his or her emotion in word.
• Provides constant hands-on and needs-based attachment to the child from his or her birth.